We stared out with a fussy fit that really scared me. It was as if she was in pain and I really didn't know what was wrong. We gave her some baby Ibuprofen and that seemed to help. We wandered the island some more this morning. Had lunch at Lucy's (again!), and then had our physical exam for her US visa. She was fine and I think came in at 8.9 kilos. I'll have to find a calculator, but I think that is a little under 20lbs.
After that we went to an eyeglass store and everyone who went got new glasses. We pick them up tomorrow. You can really bargain for everything here, and it's very unnerving.
We had dinner from a little deli at the park until the little miss had another fussy fit. We finished dinner in our hotel. Played the bed so sweetly. Read a book that she loved and then off to be...
*15 minutes later*
Another fussy fit. Screaming to end all screaming. It breaks your heart. I was holding her and I could feel her pushing and pushing while I had her in my arms...all the while still screaming. Baby was having a hard time with a poo. She won, though and is back to sleep. Tomorrow...more water. Lots more water.
Night night.
*next day*
I didn't send this because baby was even more fussy. Oh, it was awful. Went off and on (mostly on) for 3 hours. We finally went to see our guide who took us to the hotel Dr. He looked her over. Even put his pinky up her bum. I'm not sure what that was for. He said she was fine, but probably had tummy discomfort. He gave us benedryl to help her sleep and a Chinese medicine for digestion. She went out like a light and now we have the lovely benedryl for the flight home. We were advised to feed her less and push water while we keep up with the chinese digestive medicine. We're also going to be on the lookout for Chinese baby tea.
I'll try more pictures later. We're off in a moment to pick up our glasses and head to an electronics market.
Wish us restraint.
10 comments:
Hope you had a better night! :)
Her behaviour is normal and it doesn't mean she is necessarily in pain (always scary to suspect this). Fighting being held (touch is overstimulating/ hard to tolerate)and having problems getting to/staying asleep (hyper vigilance) are very, very normal in babies at this time. I still have this 3 months home; some days/nights are better than others. Try holding her with her back to you and more upright ('tiger in the tree' position from baby yoga). It helps if they have colic/gas and also helps them better tolerate touch as they are not facing you. My Hannah tolerates touch ok if it is through material, not directly on her skin (this is too stimulating for her) so covering arms can also help.
No matter how much she fights - keep on holding her. No doubt she will be able to get to sleep more quickly if you just lay her down, but - trust your instincts - she really needs held.
Best wishes to you all! :)
Oh goodness - so sorry to hear you have a fussy Zoe. We definitely had a fussy Briana at times in China. There were times she would just cry for an hour and we didn't know why. Zoe could have a tummy ache and she could definitely be grieving right now too.
I know it is sooo tough. By now you guys are so tired yourselves and it makes it hard on everyone.
I'll be thinking of you guys today. (Just remember when you head home, bring a change of clothes on the flight for yourselves. Briana threw up all over me on the flight home and I had no change of clothes! Blah!)
Hang in there!!
Oh... hang in there, YaYa. The "flying baby" can work surprisingly well. Have her back to you lying across your arm, almost like a football. For some reason, this helps relieve some gas pain. Some white noise might help, too - try the exhaust fan in the bathroom or a hair dryer.
The doctor might have been trying to stimulate her poopie muscles with the finger. We had to do that a few times with both kids... we used a Q-tip with some vaseline and just moved it around and sure as the world, they would have a BM almost immediately. They HATED it - us too for that matter! Just keep trying different things and reassure both her and each other. It is scary and you feel helpless, but sometimes all you can do is hold her and walk around until she wears herself out - and she will always know you are there for her! Love, love, love and prayers for you!
If nothing else, at least you know she's normal!! :)
Glenn had those moments with tummy issues, teething and his ears. It is SO hard when they can't tell you what hurts, or what is bothering them, but you did the right thing. Holding them and talking to them - even if they're screaming so loud you think they can't possibly hear you - is never a bad idea, in my book.
Here's hoping for a less fussy day!
Sending good vibes your way and a big hug for Zoe. All will be fine :) - remember... all will be A OK!
Take a deep breath and remember it will all fall into place.
Keep smiling,
Hugs,
Micha
LID: 05/24/06
EllaKate had the stomach issues too. Apple juice did the trick for us. I sure hope she is better today. Hang in there and hold her tight.
Hope today was easier for all of you. I love the Internet! It's so nice to know others have been through the same difficulties and can suggest things you may not have thought about trying. I know you must be so tired at this point, and watching Zoe struggle must make it even worse. Keep hanging on! I'll be thinking about you guys!
I know you guys are doing a great job loving little Zoe! Just do what you think is best. It'll be exactly what she needs. Love you!
By the way, YaYa, why in the world would you want US to wish you restraint in the bargain electronics area??? You are so lucky that Jeff J. isn't in town. He would bloggingly spank you, Missy!!! We love you all!! Enjoy!
Hug the girlie!
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